It’s My Kind Of Place (A Cape Cod Story)

Not knowing what to expect, my spouse Sandy and I first visited Cape Cod, Massachusetts, in 1998. We enjoyed the experience enough to return one year later. That second sojourn sealed the deal, and we have vacationed there just about every year since then. We can’t get enough of the Cape’s expansive areas of natural beauty, its arts scene, its wide choice of restaurants, its delightful old villages, and the healthy vibes that permeate the air. By now we’ve spent, I estimate, more than one year’s-worth of days on this 65-mile-long island. We think of it as our second home and in some ways prefer it to our primary home in the suburbs of Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. We’d possibly move there for keeps if healthcare were as good, or almost as good, on Cape Cod as it is in Greater Philadelphia. But it isn’t.

Last month Sandy and I were Cape-side for 11 days, in a rented house in the township of Orleans. As usual, we were far more active than we are back home in the burbs, devoting about eight hours each day to this, that and the other things. Such as: beach walks; a forest walk; visits to museums and art galleries; moviegoing; theatergoing; chowing-down in restaurants; shopping in and wandering around villages. We played mini golf too, and flew our tattered kite on a stretch of sands beside the Atlantic Ocean. I like playing with our kite, even when the f*cker refuses to stay up in the air for more than two or three minutes at a time, which was the case that day.

One section of Cape Cod always has intrigued me more than any other: the desert on the ocean side of Provincetown and neighboring Truro, the townships comprising the Cape’s farthest reaches. It’s hard to believe that this rugged territory is within walking distance of Provincetown’s famed and cool-as-can-be village. The Cape is full of surprises.

I’d hiked in the wonderland any number of times before, including last year. No way was I not going to explore it again. Not in the mood to risk getting lost in desert sections I was unfamiliar with, I decided to walk to the Atlantic Ocean, sticking to the established sand trail that leads there. (Sandy didn’t join me. She has been in dunesland only once. She found the trek to be too physically demanding, and has no plans to revisit this desert.)

The steep sand hill, near Snail Road, that one must climb to reach open sands.

The access to the trail in question is via a wooded area that abuts Snail Road, in Provincetown.  A ridiculously steep dune partly lies within this wood, and up it one must go in order to reach open sands. In the past I’d had little trouble ascending the dune. Last month, however, I began to huff and puff well before reaching its crest, my thigh and calf muscles not performing as well as I’d expected. What can you say? I was four days shy of my 77th birthday. I sure as shit am not what I used to be, and apparently wasn’t even what I’d been one year prior.

Anyway, after conquering dune number one, I set off for the ocean, about one mile away. The trail, easy to follow because of thousands of footprints in the sands, goes up and down dune upon dune before reaching level ground, after which dunes emerge again. Some of those sand hills are incredibly wide and tall. They’d fit right in on the Moon.

I’ve never been less than awestruck in the Cape desert. This time was no exception. It’s so beautiful out there, so unlike anywhere else on Cape Cod. Amazingly, a tiny number of people live in this demanding land, most of them in shacks, the rest in very modest houses. The abodes have no running water, of course. Maybe some have electric generators . . . I don’t know. In any event, it’s not your average person who chooses to reside in such an environment. I wouldn’t. I like my comforts too much.

The Atlantic Ocean is very nearby. Two dune shacks are in the distance.

Well, eventually I made it to the ocean. Almost to the ocean, that is, as I saw no path leading from my sand-cliff perch to the beach and waters below. Some years ago I’d walked onto the beach easily. Not sure why access is difficult now. I suppose that powerful storms have shifted the sands around, creating barriers. Mother Nature has the last say.

My tank dangerously low on gas, I eventually made my way back to Snail Road, stopping every few minutes to drink some water. It’s a good thing I’d had the sense to bring water with me. Otherwise, I might have collapsed somewhere in the lunar-like landscape and drifted off into eternal sleep. If that had happened, the WordPress gods would have been very disappointed, for they’d recently honored me with their Your Articles Kind Of Suck, But We’ll Let That Slide award. What’s more, I now wouldn’t be looking forward to my next vacation on Cape Cod. Yes indeed, it’s my kind of place.

157 thoughts on “It’s My Kind Of Place (A Cape Cod Story)

  1. Lynette d'Arty-Cross's avatar Lynette d'Arty-Cross November 12, 2024 / 12:38 am

    I agree. Cape Cod is amazingly diverse. Your pictures are beautiful, Neil. I would want to go every year, too!

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  2. Audrey Driscoll's avatar Audrey Driscoll November 12, 2024 / 12:54 am

    Thanks for sharing scenes from your walk, Neil. It does look like a strange and beautiful place.

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  3. johnlmalone's avatar johnlmalone November 12, 2024 / 1:12 am

    I loved the humor in this and the detail you supplied on the way to scenic spots, esp that climb up that mammoth sand hill. We’re about the same age, Neil, and I certainly would have found it hard going. but overall you and Sandy had a good time. Enjoyed the photos too —

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  4. Geoff Stamper's avatar Geoff Stamper November 12, 2024 / 2:19 am

    We once got as far as Hyannis Port. You make me wish we had taken more time when we had the chance!

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  5. Paddy Tobin's avatar Paddy Tobin November 12, 2024 / 3:31 am

    Great to hear you have had time in the place which is so special to you, a big change and rest from the city and, obviously, a place to get a good deal of pleasant exercise which becomes more and more important as we add to our years over the 70. I’ve walked in smaller sand dune systems and have, at times, become hopelessly lost and it is, as you say, a very testing area in which to walk. Glad to read you have had a good break.

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    • Yeah, Another Blogger's avatar Yeah, Another Blogger November 12, 2024 / 4:21 pm

      Hey there, Paddy. I’d like to explore parts of dunesland I haven’t been in. But I wouldn’t mind having a guide with me, because getting lost out there would be bad news.

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  6. gabychops's avatar gabychops November 12, 2024 / 4:45 am

    Thank you, Neil, for a lovely post about the beautiful place with your wonderful photos.

    Joanna

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  7. Michael Graeme's avatar Michael Graeme November 12, 2024 / 5:41 am

    I find that as well as enjoying being with you here in this place you obviously love, you’ve given me an idea. I was sorting through the junk in my garage recently and came across my son’s old kite. It was always a good flier. You know what I’m going to do?

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  8. joylennick's avatar joylennick November 12, 2024 / 5:55 am

    It sounds a wonderful place to explore, Neil…but I’m older than you (much) so have to pay homage to Mother Nature’s rules, energy-wise. That’s one of the hardest to obey as I was a keen walker when younger .I’m so glad we travelled a fair amount when able as, hub and I, have some wonderful memories…Keep plodding on…Upwards and onwards. (Have you tried Spain yet? It has the most varied scenery and, weatherwise – in Playa Flamenca especially, it’s spot on. ) x

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  9. swabby429's avatar swabby429 November 12, 2024 / 6:06 am

    Cape Cod has been on my bucket list for several years. Your story, elevates it higher in rank. The Dunes sound amazing.

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    • Yeah, Another Blogger's avatar Yeah, Another Blogger November 12, 2024 / 4:26 pm

      Hi. That dunes/desert section of the Cape is pretty mind-blowing. I’m always amazed when I see it or trek through it.

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  10. ourcrossings's avatar ourcrossings November 12, 2024 / 6:37 am

    Your photos are so beautiful and so is Cape Cod – it is such a wonderful destination for anyone looking to experience New England beauty and charm. I’ve never been to Cape Cod, but from what I’ve heard and read from other bloggers and travellers who visited this part of the world – the captivating beauty of Cape Cod is unmatched! Thanks for sharing, and have a good day 🙂 Aiva xx

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    • Yeah, Another Blogger's avatar Yeah, Another Blogger November 12, 2024 / 4:30 pm

      Howdy, Aiva. Cape Cod has so many beautiful areas. The ocean shoreline is gorgeous. Ditto for the Cape Cod Bay shoreline. And many towns are charming. Lots of good restaurants all over the place, too. I’m a big fan of Cape Cod!

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  11. richardbist's avatar richardbist November 12, 2024 / 6:44 am

    Those beautiful dunes make it worth the pain and effort! Great photos, as well.

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  12. The Introverted Bookworm's avatar The Introverted Bookworm November 12, 2024 / 7:10 am

    Wow, Cape Cod sounds and looks spectacular. The Cape desert is not something I would’ve ever thought of, and I love the sea views over the Atlantic. Thanks for sharing! 😄🌊

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    • Yeah, Another Blogger's avatar Yeah, Another Blogger November 12, 2024 / 4:34 pm

      There’s a nice variety of landscapes and seascapes on Cape Cod. Cute villages too, and small theater companies, and lots of art galleries. It’s pretty great.

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  13. J P's avatar J P November 12, 2024 / 7:18 am

    I have never been, but would like to experience it. I would never have guessed that a desert environment could be found abutting the Atlantic Ocean!

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  14. J. Kelland Perry's avatar J. Kelland Perry November 12, 2024 / 7:32 am

    Wow, I’ve never been to Cape Cod, Neil, but the similarities to where I live are incredible, especially the sand dunes and beaches. 😊☀️

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  15. Joyce Hamilton's avatar Joyce Hamilton November 12, 2024 / 8:28 am

    Beautiful photos! Brought back memories of the many, many times l have been visiting…25 plus years. Besides everything you mentioned about the Cape l also miss the lobster rolls.

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    • Yeah, Another Blogger's avatar Yeah, Another Blogger November 12, 2024 / 4:40 pm

      We didn’t have lobster rolls during the trip, unfortunately. By the way, they’ve become very expensive. $35 is a common price for one of them.

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  16. Deb's avatar Deb November 12, 2024 / 8:36 am

    You always renew my dream of living on the Cape Neil, every time you write. Sadly it will probably remain a dream but I thank you for trying 🙂

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  17. Aud's avatar Aud November 12, 2024 / 9:01 am

    Friggin kites. 😒
    Thanks so much for posting this, Neil. After this hellweek reading your post has given me a good start this morning 👍

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  18. Aud's avatar Aud November 12, 2024 / 9:04 am

    Also: I had no idea folks lived in these shacks. Now I have to look more into that! 🧐

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  19. Debra Schiff's avatar Debra Schiff November 12, 2024 / 9:39 am

    I tried posting a comment but it didn’t let me because I wouldn’t sign in.
    What I said was…
    Beautiful photos. It make take longer to get some places as we age, but we still get there. Keep on scaling new heights.


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  20. JT Twissel's avatar JT Twissel November 12, 2024 / 11:11 am

    I hope you’re keep a list of places to visit on the Cape! I do hope to get back there someday.

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    • Yeah, Another Blogger's avatar Yeah, Another Blogger November 12, 2024 / 4:47 pm

      Hi. If you ever plan to go there, get in touch with me and I’ll give you some suggestions and recommendations.

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  21. Sam Gridley's avatar Sam Gridley November 12, 2024 / 11:20 am

    Those desert shacks may be a good place to spend the next four years.

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  22. Unknown's avatar Anonymous November 12, 2024 / 11:49 am

    Cape Cod is such a great place to visit. That yearly infusion of salt air and your dune trekking help keep you young!

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  23. Paula B's avatar Paula B November 12, 2024 / 12:03 pm

    Congratulations on conquering that walk, despite the shifting sands and your own shifting abilities! It’s so hard to walk on sand, let alone a steep sandy hill. And good on you for always having water with you; it seems like everyone our age (I’m not all that far behind you) is dehydrated! Your photos and text are, as always, lovely.

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  24. kegarland's avatar kegarland November 12, 2024 / 3:42 pm

    I’m starting to think it’s a good thing that we can’t get to all the parts of nature. I enjoyed looking at these photos.

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    • Yeah, Another Blogger's avatar Yeah, Another Blogger November 12, 2024 / 4:52 pm

      Hi Kathy. It’s a pretty tough environment in that desert area. But it’s a lot of fun to explore it (as long as you don’t get lost).

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  25. Helen Devries's avatar Helen Devries November 12, 2024 / 3:53 pm

    That’s a wonderful looking area…..very glad you took it easy getting there and back though….

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  26. unionhomestead's avatar unionhomestead November 12, 2024 / 4:33 pm

    What an awesome place! My calf muscles began aching just looking at the first sand hill, but I’m glad you took the hit for us and ventured on. Hope you treated yourselves to a particularly nice restaurant as a reward!

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    • Yeah, Another Blogger's avatar Yeah, Another Blogger November 12, 2024 / 5:33 pm

      Hi. After my trek, we drove into Provincetown village. Went to the art museum there. And after that we had dinner in a good Italian restaurant.

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  27. Unknown's avatar Anonymous November 12, 2024 / 5:58 pm

    A great post. It does sound a super place to visit and go dune walking, although I cam understand those winds of change, shifting the dunes and making the hike that little bit harder.

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    • Yeah, Another Blogger's avatar Yeah, Another Blogger November 12, 2024 / 8:03 pm

      Hi. Is this Vivienne? Storms have caused all kinds of changes to the Cape’s Atlantic Ocean coastline.

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  28. Anabel @ The Glasgow Gallivanter's avatar Anabel @ The Glasgow Gallivanter November 12, 2024 / 6:25 pm

    I remember doing this walk in the early 90s. We visited Provincetown again a few years later, and not since. Sadly, I think the US is off my visiting agenda for many years to come.

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  29. Unknown's avatar Anonymous November 12, 2024 / 6:47 pm

    Neil, your words and photos make Cape Cod sound magical.

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  30. Ilsa Rey's avatar Ilsa Rey November 12, 2024 / 6:56 pm

    Wow. I’ve never been there, but I can practically feel the peace.

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    • Yeah, Another Blogger's avatar Yeah, Another Blogger November 12, 2024 / 8:08 pm

      Hi Betsy. Cape Cod seems peaceful in general, not just in certain areas. That’s another reason why my wife and I enjoy being there.

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  31. Unknown's avatar Anonymous November 12, 2024 / 7:42 pm

    That trail sounded demanding but beholding the beauty of the dunes and the desert well worth it.

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    • Yeah, Another Blogger's avatar Yeah, Another Blogger November 12, 2024 / 8:11 pm

      Hi there. Is this Jan? — you’re listed as Anonymous. Yeah, I love walking around that section of Cape Cod. It’s kind of otherworldly.

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  32. talebender's avatar talebender November 12, 2024 / 8:25 pm

    Congratulations on winning that elusive YAKOSBWLTS! Personally, I don’t think your stuff sucks, but I’m not a critic, just a guy who enjoys your writing!

    Glad you survived to write another day!

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  33. Unknown's avatar Anonymous November 12, 2024 / 8:44 pm

    Hi! Cape Cod looks like a very beautiful place. I had no idea there was a desert aspect to it. I can see why you and Sandy enjoy spending so much time there.

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    • Yeah, Another Blogger's avatar Yeah, Another Blogger November 12, 2024 / 10:19 pm

      The Cape has a lot going for it. It’s the only place we’ve ever wanted to visit time and again. By the way, I don’t know who this is — your comments are posted as being from Anonymous.

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      • ellie894's avatar ellie894 November 18, 2024 / 9:14 pm

        Hi! This is Suzanne from Ellie894. I’m sorry for my late reply. I didn’t receive notice of your reply.

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        • Yeah, Another Blogger's avatar Yeah, Another Blogger November 18, 2024 / 10:39 pm

          Hi there, Suzanne. I just took a look at your original comments — they are listed as being from Anonymous. That happened, I guess, because you weren’t signed into WordPress when you posted the comments. Because of that, my reply didn’t reach you. Anyway, thanks for getting back in touch with me. Take care. Neil

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  34. thelongview's avatar thelongview November 12, 2024 / 11:41 pm

    What an interesting place Cake Cod seems to be! Glad you survived the walk, we would have missed you 😃

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    • Yeah, Another Blogger's avatar Yeah, Another Blogger November 13, 2024 / 7:18 am

      Hi, and thanks. I never get tired of walking on Cape Cod’s eastern coastline, which is beach bordered by the Atlantic Ocean. That beach goes on forever, so you can walk for miles and miles while looking at the waters. Really spectacular.

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  35. Yvonne Beumkes's avatar Yvonne Beumkes November 13, 2024 / 5:29 am

    Thank you for your wonderful stories about Cape Cod. But care of yourself. We are what you may name ‘a mature age´. Happy Birthday

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  36. Unknown's avatar Anonymous November 13, 2024 / 10:13 am

    Well written and the photos made it interesting too.

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  37. mariezhuikov's avatar mariezhuikov November 13, 2024 / 12:01 pm

    If you had died on the path, at least you would have died happy. But I’m glad that you didn’t! 🙂

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  38. shoreacres's avatar shoreacres November 13, 2024 / 9:27 pm

    This is so interesting to me. Here, the general rule (and often the strongly enforced rule) is to stay off the dunes. They’re fairly fragile, and keeping them in good shape is a high priority. Besides, rattlesnakes love our dunes: another good reason to stay away. But it seems as though these Cape Cod dunes are much larger and generally more expansive.

    That path would be a tough one. Walking in loose sand isn’t easy on the level, but climbing through loose sand would be something. I’m glad you did it, and I’m really glad you brought back these glorious photos for us.

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    • Yeah, Another Blogger's avatar Yeah, Another Blogger November 14, 2024 / 7:27 am

      Morning. In some of the other parts of Cape Cod, there are signs telling people to stay off the dunes. But that’s not the case in the section I wrote about.

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      • shoreacres's avatar shoreacres November 14, 2024 / 7:31 am

        That’s great, that you had the chance to explore an area like that.

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  39. wings of a tern's avatar rivertoprambles November 13, 2024 / 9:46 pm

    I’ve also enjoyed plodding thru the dunes at that location, even pausing here & there for the tasty cranberries that were in season. Thanks for bringing them back again.

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  40. Ann Coleman's avatar Ann Coleman November 13, 2024 / 10:18 pm

    You make me want to visit Cape Cod! And good for you for climbing up those dunes…not sure I would have had the stamina!

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  41. Unknown's avatar Anonymous November 14, 2024 / 1:16 am

    I think one of the hardest things on earth is walking through sand, so climbing through sand…..? Don’t be so hard on yourself. It’s like going upstairs. I’ve been in peak condition and still huffed and puffed going upstairs. Something about the angle and those movements!

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    • Yeah, Another Blogger's avatar Yeah, Another Blogger November 14, 2024 / 7:34 am

      Right, the sand gives way under your feet on dunes, so climbing isn’t all that easy. Who is this, by the way? Your comments are listed as being from Anonymous.

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  42. jeanleesworld's avatar jeanleesworld November 14, 2024 / 6:42 am

    A lovely callback to a warmer time, my friend, thank you! I’m not a summer person, but the gloomy, wet November is not my cup of tea either. x

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