A Self-Aware Story

I’ve been turning out essays and humor pieces on these pages for a long time, since April 2015 to be precise. And though my production rate has slowed down considerably over the years, and especially of late, I remain in the game. I have no plans to permanently stop putting fingers to keyboard, though that intention will be dashed — duh! — when the Grim F*cking Reaper decides I’ve been occupying space above ground for damn well long enough. The truth is, I get a kick from laying down words, partly because the writing process often enables me to discover or discern what my orientations, views, likes and dislikes truly are. In other words, I’ve learned quite a bit about myself as a result of creating content for Yeah, Another Blogger. And so, I’m nothing but glad that my wife Sandy encouraged me to revive my writing career by starting a blog (YAB, you see, isn’t the first outlet in which I’ve published stories. Many, many moons ago I was a freelancer for The Philadelphia Inquirer newspaper, covering the arts and pop culture). Thank you, Sandy, for getting me back on track!

Here’s part of the lowdown about yours truly: I came of age in the hippie era, and the good vibrations in the air back then permeated my mind and emotions, shaping the way I approach the world. Ergo, I’m fully in favor of peace, love, understanding, equality, tolerance and kindness. And for just about all of my adult life I’ve sought the company of beautiful creations in both the natural and man-made worlds, and have engaged in a pretty steady flow of colorful mini adventures.

Before Yeah, Another Blogger was birthed, did I pay attention to those facts, which to a significant extent define me? Well, I did. Not profoundly, though. My makeup, however, began to become clearer and more obvious to me by virtue of the types of stories I found myself drawn to write for this publication, and by the writing process itself. Shit, writing doesn’t come particularly easily to me. I have to strain my brain big time in order to turn out most pieces. The straining, however, often results in my slapping myself upside my head and thinking, “Hey, right! Thats what I believe. Thats what I like to do. Thats who I am!”

And so, it isn’t by accident that Yeah, Another Blogger, which largely is a personal narrative, overflows with ruminations about and examinations of subjects and activities I dig: sunsets, flowers, my on-foot escapades and explorations, music, TV series, foods and beverages, and quite a bit more. Still, this website isn’t strictly about good stuff. I’ve tackled problematic issues too, those I feel I can discuss without getting in way over my head.  And on a fair number of occasions I’ve torn into those whose value systems and actions offend me deeply. My main target has been the riot inciter, con man and convicted felon named Donald Trump.

The big question nagging me, however, is this: Does any of what I’ve stated above matter? By straining my brain for a while, I came up with an answer. And the answer is yes.  The more we know about ourselves, the better, I think. We can work on our faults only when we are aware of them. And when we recognize and understand our positive sides, we gain confidence and interact with the world more fluidly and productively. Planet Earth is in a sad state right now. It sure can’t hurt when as many lights as possible shine within it.

68 thoughts on “A Self-Aware Story

  1. Unknown's avatar Anonymous July 14, 2026 / 12:22 am

    I totally agree! Neil, keep Scheinin’ on!

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  2. gabychops's avatar gabychops July 14, 2026 / 12:29 am

    Thank you, Neil, for following Socrates, who wrote: ” Life that is not examined is not worth anything.” I am quoting from memory, but you have come to the same conviction. And yes, your writing matters because it brings joy to others.

    Joanna

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  3. petespringer's avatar petespringer July 14, 2026 / 1:10 am

    Keep on keeping on, Neil. Words matter. Besises, a blog is way cheaper than therapy.

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  4. johnlmalone's avatar johnlmalone July 14, 2026 / 1:13 am

    I love your blog, Neil. We are the same vintage. I am drawn to things beautiful, odd and plain weird. Being colourful helps. My blog’s been going almost long as yours. Writing has saved me. It’s the only talent I have. And, boy, does it occupy me. I love te fraternity of writers on WP; we have many stalwarts 🙂

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  5. Unknown's avatar Anonymous July 14, 2026 / 1:58 am

    and you are one of those lights. I enjoy all your articles – keep writing. I love the variety and the positivity you emanate. All the best to you and Sandy.

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  6. Sheree's avatar Sheree July 14, 2026 / 2:28 am

    What’s important is that you enjoy the process of articulating your thoughts. If we enjoy them too – and clearly we do – that’s a bonus.

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  7. Lynette d'Arty-Cross's avatar Lynette d'Arty-Cross July 14, 2026 / 2:35 am

    I’ve always enjoyed your posts, Neil, because you make me think, too. And couldn’t agree more with what you have posted here. I find that writing forces me to really define what I think about something. And yes, Earth is in sad state, not least because of Trump, his toady puppets and the other government “leaders” around the world who are just like him. Yes, it’s our responsibility to know ourselves and shine our lights in positive ways.

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    • Yeah, Another Blogger's avatar Yeah, Another Blogger July 14, 2026 / 1:58 pm

      Hi, Peggy. There are a lot of mean-spirited people in this world. We, of course, need to stand up against them.

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  8. Monkey's Tale's avatar Monkey's Tale July 14, 2026 / 3:04 am

    It’s your insightful honesty that draws other to read your words Neil. Interesting to learn more about you in this post. Maggie

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    • Yeah, Another Blogger's avatar Yeah, Another Blogger July 14, 2026 / 2:01 pm

      Hi Maggie. I’m pretty sure I hadn’t before mentioned in my blog that I once freelanced for a newspaper. It was fun. That was a long time ago — my final story for that paper appeared in 1991.

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  9. Paddy Tobin's avatar Paddy Tobin July 14, 2026 / 3:19 am

    Do continue to write, Neal. While you enjoy writing I, for one, certainly enjoy reading your thoughts. Yes, I agree, the writing process does reveal one’s self and I have found, as you have pointed out, that I am not short of opinions but I have also found that I am quite careful in how I express them. Much of my thoughts centre around gardening, gardens and gardening people here in Ireland and in such a small pond it is uncomfortable to cause too many ripples. One must live here with some comfort, without too much antagonism, and without attracting – for our own comfort – too much nasty comment though that has already happened! Keep writing!!!

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    • Yeah, Another Blogger's avatar Yeah, Another Blogger July 14, 2026 / 2:05 pm

      Yeah, it’s important not to antagonize too many people, generally speaking. Bad situations that we hadn’t anticipated can develop sometimes.

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  10. richardbist's avatar richardbist July 14, 2026 / 6:57 am

    You hit the bullseye there, mate. We write for ourselves, first. We explore our own ideas and interests, and if we’re lucky, we run into others with a similar mind.

    For what it’s worth, I enjoy your posts and appreciate your humorous honesty.

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  11. Unknown's avatar Anonymous July 14, 2026 / 7:11 am

    Well put, Neil! Here’s hoping that soon, very soon, we elect people who are serious about love, peace, fairness, climate change and its impact, and are strongly committed to doing something about them all.

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    • Yeah, Another Blogger's avatar Yeah, Another Blogger July 14, 2026 / 2:08 pm

      It’s incredible and sad that many people wouldn’t agree with what you said. Ours is a highly flawed species.

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  12. maxnhall's avatar maxnhall July 14, 2026 / 7:47 am

    Great introspection. Interestingly, next week is my 500th blog and I’m working it now. There are some similar themes in in (no plagiarism I promise!). I’m exploring what live life exuberantly means to me now and some of my growth over the past ten years of keeping the blog)

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  13. bruce@ssa's avatar bruce@ssa July 14, 2026 / 8:30 am

    Neil, it is always rewarding when we write something at least one other person can identify with and respond to. You have garnered an awful lot of those rewards over these years here because a whole bunch of us relate to your words, and engage with you accordingly. It sounds from this post there are plenty more rewarding moments headed your…and our…way.

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    • Yeah, Another Blogger's avatar Yeah, Another Blogger July 14, 2026 / 2:14 pm

      Afternoon, Bruce. I’ve reached a point where I feel as though I don’t have too much to say that I already haven’t said. But, despite that, I’m not throwing in the towel!

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  14. Helen Devries's avatar Helen Devries July 14, 2026 / 8:31 am

    I am always pleased to see your blog posts heave up over the horizon….I appreciate your take on life, your humour and your honesty.

    Keep on shining that light and keep your batteries charged!

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  15. J P's avatar J P July 14, 2026 / 8:47 am

    It is true that the best way to work through what we really believe about something is to write about it. Nothing exposes poorly-formed thoughts like seeing them looking back at you from a screen!

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  16. Indira's avatar Indira July 14, 2026 / 9:37 am

    “The more we know about ourselves, the better…”- Indeed!

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  17. shoreacres's avatar shoreacres July 14, 2026 / 10:01 am

    At some point, I wrote a post about the writing process, pointing out that editing is more than checking the spelling and grammar. Editing for coherence and clarity is just as important; most of the time, what I take out is just as important as what I put in.

    You’re making the same point, in a somewhat different way. Both of us are in good company. Flannery O’Connor once said, “I write to discover what I know,” and Joan Didion concurred, saying, “I write entirely to find out what I’m thinking.” The process never ends.

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  18. Bitchy After 60's avatar Bitchy After 60 July 14, 2026 / 10:28 am

    Of course, what you write matters. I always say blogging is therapy. Whatever helps us grow and works for us matters. It also appears to work for all your readers including me.

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  19. Sam Gridley's avatar Sam Gridley July 14, 2026 / 10:38 am

    Definitely, Neil. Writing helps clarify our thoughts and feelings both, and in that way promotes self-understanding. As for the hippie era, I still catch a whiff of it occasionally on the street.

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  20. ourcrossings's avatar ourcrossings July 14, 2026 / 10:47 am

    I agree with your sentiment that the more we know and understand ourselves – biologically as well as socially, behaviourally as well as physiologically – the better we will be. Challenging, yes, but I think worth exploring and pursuing positively, optimistically, hopefully. Thanks for sharing, and have a good day 🙂 Aiva xx

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  21. Unknown's avatar Anonymous July 14, 2026 / 10:47 am

    Your question at the end reminds me of the riddle about whether a tree falling in the forest, with no one around, makes a noise. I don’t know the answer, but regardless, the truth is it fell.

    Your writing on issues of the day absolutely makes a noise….i.e. a difference! The more we share, the greater the chance the light of truth will shine through.

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    • Yeah, Another Blogger's avatar Yeah, Another Blogger July 14, 2026 / 2:28 pm

      “The more we share, the greater the chance the light of truth will shine through.” — thumbs up to that!

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  22. Unknown's avatar Anonymous July 14, 2026 / 11:09 am

    An editor that your perceptive wife Sandy and I worked with once said, “I have to write about something to truly figure out what I think about it.” And you are so right, we need ad many people as possible thinking about what is goin on in our world. Write on, Neil!

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    • Yeah, Another Blogger's avatar Yeah, Another Blogger July 14, 2026 / 2:29 pm

      I think I know who this is, though I’m not positive. In any case, thanks a lot for stopping by and adding your thoughts.

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  23. JT Twissel's avatar JT Twissel July 14, 2026 / 11:48 am

    I think you’re right. A lot of writing is figuring how the puzzle pieces of our lives fit together or … if they don’t or never will … why? I was thinking how lucky we were to live those those hippie days. We weren’t totally successful but it was wonderful to have thought, if only for a few years, that it was possible. I’m always happy to see that you’ve posted your thoughts, your reflections on the world.

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  24. mariezhuikov's avatar mariezhuikov July 14, 2026 / 12:21 pm

    So well said, Neil! I didn’t know you were a former newspaper writer. Glad that you found your way back to writing, and that you’ve kept at it for so long.

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    • Yeah, Another Blogger's avatar Yeah, Another Blogger July 14, 2026 / 2:36 pm

      Howdy, Marie. I freelanced for that newspaper for about five years. My final story for that paper came out in 1991. Then I took a ridiculously long hiatus (24 years) from writing.

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  25. Rosaliene Bacchus's avatar Rosaliene Bacchus July 14, 2026 / 12:31 pm

    Aha! Now I know where you’ve developed your engaging writing style that’s captivated me over the years 😀 Yeah, I totally agree that we need to light up the darkness that’s enveloped us.

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  26. Sherri MP's avatar Sherri MP July 14, 2026 / 12:54 pm

    Keep shining Neil. I really enjoy your posts. In this messed up world, “that’s who I am” is what we need to keep searching for.

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  27. Unknown's avatar Anonymous July 14, 2026 / 1:30 pm

    We’re all in this life together. Sharing is the best. 💝

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